When
we dare to love, we invent an idea the other and raised a large
stone wall to protect us.
Love comes from the haven we should to
take it and spread it to others in the family or the outsides. Sometimes we are
facing more complication to take it or dare to it.
As
we teach Family Constellations (memory therapy using interpersonal and
behavioral family systems), if a woman has not taken and has forgiven her
father, it is difficult to establish a healthy relationship with a man. Also if
a man has not taken and has forgiven his mother, he will struggle to mate with
a female.
Sometimes
when we dare to love, we invent an idea the other and raised a
large stone wall to protect: it is easier to convince the other is the
prototype we have imagined, to go to him and look at his truth.
‘Why
keep trying? He is an immature,’ ‘She's an octopus will eat all my freedom.’ We
label the other, and so tombstones, then stay quiet on this idea, justifying
our lack of courage. ‘I prefer to risk hammered heart to fall in love
and what I go through a javelin’.
We
plugged well, our deepest fears, our pains entrenched, has triggered the other,
without doubt, to challenge us to grow. Nobody worth comes into our lives, in
our inner circle, if not to confront ourselves.
No clutch, when we dare
to love, it is easier to entrenched, defended, crouching like wounded
animal to decide to get out of that dark cave, although dark area from our
mind.
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