Love and Marriage Life
In man and woman united in marriage this word applies perfectly, most of us that when we are single, we dream, speculate and think about the day we married, on the day of our wedding, and love & future for the life.
Even
some women plan the wedding of your dreams since adolescence, some men when it
comes to buying the best house, the best place to travel to your honeymoon, try
to buy the best engagement ring I could afford, finally is our happiest moment
... because ... we leave our parents to join this man and this woman we love
in our lives. But the man and woman should not only have high expectations on
the wedding alone, but to form a life of wife and husband, a life
that will bring satisfaction to children, grandchildren, travel, intimacy.
The
marriage or with your partner is one of the four major decisions
we make in our lives, decisions that shape us as individuals truly
forever mark our existence and filled with meaning.
Organize
our life decisions
Decisions about our study or career that
we devote
Decisions of who will be our friends
Decisions about our spiritual belief
We
decide who we want to marry
This
found that many women experience frustration or sadness after the wedding ends
once ending the great event to which they have devoted time, effort and
imagination and zaz! Depressed, thinking if indeed that was it! Expectations
about situations, people or things momentary vanish, that does not make
happiness, men and married women should focus on the adventure of building a
home and raise a family, this adventure is ahead and it is an adventure of all
a life.
Much
has been made of the steps to have a successful marriage; successful marriage
is not a formula trite that comes in a book, in a conversation or in a marriage
seminar.
The
successful marriage is based on the experience of everyday life
is a daily meeting where the hours are slipping, we go hands well say that life
is based on moments, like a caress, a kiss, a handshake, a mime in the face, a
rose, a detail, a smile, an afternoon in the park, a look, a I love you.
Please do not let those moments slip away.
The
unity and love are based on a firm decision about the woman or the man
we love, love is a decision, which I choose to love
unconditionally, I let my mom and dad and let them not only physically, but
with detachment total surrender body and soul to my beloved or my beloved.
Love
does not consist in conditioning the person to love me and deserve my
love if it behaves the way I want it to behave, the way they want you to
think, remember that even though we are husband and wife, we are also people
who have a right to their individuality, but sometimes claim that the couple
change to our liking and to suit our requirements.
Please
do not confuse love with attachment, love dependency; conditional
love will always be an enemy of happy and successful marriage. If I
choose to love my wife with their flaws and virtues and wholeheartedly
decided then that I have it! That decision is mine and I will be consistent
with the love I've decided, so the couples today do not last a single
year and are married, quit, run away from commitment and call a bill of
divorce.
Many
stories abound of these cases in our society today, there are people committed
to that love. There are people who fantasize about other love
while being married to another woman want passing through the street when we
were with his wife. They believe in him “this woman is beautiful” and brazenly
turns around to see it, that's distorting the truth and distort the covenant
you made to marry. And the women in these cases thought how disgusting!
What
a married man should do in your mind is: "that woman is pretty, but I
love my wife, yes she is truly beautiful." That precisely is based on
our decision to unity with our partner; we must be faithful in every sense of
the word.
A
woman should think: "That man is very manly, but I love my adorable
husband," If we thought our decisions, not emotions alone would
have successful marriages and gender.
The
man and the woman must not only love but also be joined must be
respected, must be one, a marriage is a spiritual union, perfect love
there is in unity with the beloved, the perfect unity is to know? I have to
give for my husband? what I have to give for my wife? Time, Fondling, kissing,
details, smiles, hugs, protection, assistance, security, friendship, honor,
respect, recognition, love? You really have a lot to give.
Every
aspect you give, give it honestly, enjoying the moment, being expressive about
it, the woman giving honor and recognition to the man.
The
woman is like a fragile vase, requires care and attention and is in a place of
honor, tenderness and affection woman brings to the marriage. The man is
the head of the house and home, demands respect, recognition and praise, the
man provides protection and security of marriage.
But
really we're missing those moments; we are going life, time, days and
years, wasting time without focus, without focus. Let us be one with your
partner, forgetting our flaws, our imperfections forgetting, forgetting our
ailments, our sorrows, our fears, our insecurities.
Love
is based on giving, not receiving, love is personally give quality time,
delivery time, intimacy, do not let the moment slip away, do not be routine,
shake the monotony, boredom marriage is given because we lack
creativity, we lack imagination, we lack excitement and passion for the woman,
believe me, you need to be more dedicated to building our marriage every
day.
Do
not pretend to have apprehended strive to win every day, forgetting what was
left behind and what you have extending ahead, your future generations depend
on your decisions in married life, be an example, that you note
the passion for your partner, do not lose your first love is the
greatest love you have, concentrate on the most happy and do not settle
for those moments but creates other times more meaningful, successful marriage
is a daily effort, an effort that has great rewards, which will be reflected in
your children and in your main business is family.
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