Love comes from the haven we should to
take it and spread it to others in the family or the outsides. Sometimes we are
facing more complication to take it or dare to it.
As
we teach Family Constellations (memory therapy using interpersonal and
behavioral family systems), if a woman has not taken and has forgiven her
father, it is difficult to establish a healthy relationship with a man. Also if
a man has not taken and has forgiven his mother, he will struggle to mate with
a female.
Sometimes
when we dare to love, we invent an idea the other and raised a
large stone wall to protect: it is easier to convince the other is the
prototype we have imagined, to go to him and look at his truth.